Hello everyone. *actually there isn't anyone reading my blog also. HAHA* 
It has been a long time I'm not active in this blogsphere. Omg, I can't believe that this is my 1st entry of this year, YEAR 2013. 
It's isn't just the blog I'm neglecting, I realize I'm neglecting myself too.  I realize that I'm now self giving up, like a body without a soul. It's totally so not being alive. My personalities changed a lot after I moved here (Penang). My temper is getting worse and worse. I feel I'm like a "serial killer". I know I describe it EXAGGERATE-LY. To be honest, something went wrong with my relationship and I really don't know how to handle it with the RIGHT WAY. I'm so stress that we couldn't settle it  face to face. That's the barriers between me and beloved.
Let's talk about DISTANCE LOVE? 
I know right, my relationship is just a distance of a Penang Bridge but to be honest this brought us lot's of conflict. I wonder how people maintain long distance relationships well for years. So come and have some ways that might help :)


Ways to maintain long distance relationship. 

1. Trust your guy/girl

Its essential that you have complete faith in their words and believe that they will not see anyone behind your back. Now, how much you trust your beloved depends entirely on how healthy your relationship is and how much you love them and vice versa.

2. Express your doubts

If you have any queries or are feeling insecure about anything, talk to them and share with them your thoughts. This is vital because they need to know how you feel about certain things and will hence discuss the issue with you and try their level best to keep you from getting anxious. 

3. Allot time for talking

Now that we're all gizmo freaks, we all have ways and means of talking to each other. Talk to you guy/girl and make sure that you set aside some time to talk to each other. Use your cell phones. Or you always have Skype and other Messengers where you can see each other too!

4. Keep them informed

Distances can often make people nervous. They might want to know all about you. Every single information is important to them. So please don’t get irritated with their constant pestering ( if you call it so). They are just concerned about you cause you are the world for them and every minute thing counts. So tell them every single thing and don’t hide stuff. Answer all their questions. The more you hesitate to answer them, the more suspicious and distant they become. So let them know. NO harm done in telling them right? After all, there are no secrets in love!

5. Meet each other

Occasionally, or probably when on a vacation, try to take some time off your schedule and spend some time with them. Give them a surprise visit. Hang out at some cosy restaurant or at either of your houses if you aren’t the kind who holds hand in public. It would really cheer them up to see you after dealing with so much pressure in college.

6. Keep their friend’s numbers

This is necessary as in case you have any thing urgent to tell them, you can contact their friends and they will pass it on. It’s also helpful when you’re away for their birthday or valentines day as you can plan up with their friends and get them some gift on your behalf.

This is what I have read about long distance and I thought that it is quite nice. SHARING = CARING 
I have tried this ways for a week, it does help !!!!!! 










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